BUT- I have to say. As an official and public statement, I really don't like it when people have music on their blogs or homepage or FaceSpace or whatever. It's really obnoxious. You click on someone's link to read some humorous anecdote and a couple of seconds later... BLAM! The worst thing you ever heard... oh yeah, and you have to buy me new speakers because mine just blew. Thanks. Then it gets to the point that if you know that they have music, you try to see everything before the music starts, then close the window as quickly as possible. It's a hassle.
So, if you're one of "those," maybe consider not having music, or see if your particular player has an option that won't automatically play when someone loads your page, but that can be played by us.
Thank you for your consideration in this matter,